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Sunday, September 20, 2009

我要做到..修持克己

前几天看书, 看到一篇很有意义的文章, 所以抄了下来 : -

不彰人短, 不炫己长, 乃修持克己之最上功夫. 若彰人短, 己身必危; 若炫己长, 必忘其形. 攻人者, 不明为人之道理, 长此以往, 其命必轻, 惟有不彰不炫, 才能明哲保身. 保身之道, 常养性于和平, 平而无争则己身不会受害矣!

不彰不炫, 是世人所难为也, 人之有短而匡助之, 义心也, 其报久而远; 人之有短而隐讳之, 仁心也, 其报广而深. 己之有长而自讳之, 虚心也, 其报宏而博; 己之有长而自抑之, 乃精进心也, 其报绵而厚.

见人之有短, 不以为短, 自躬反省; 有己之长而不以为长, 与天下共长之, 乃至人也.

至人者, 存, 为贤, 为圣. 殁, 为神, 为真.

再来就是...

忠于事, 义于人, 终身不懈怠!

至于一切传言, 一句话 : 不理会.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

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Daphne那里总算完成了吧..希望没遗漏 ^_^

TAG -- II

来自Daphne..

Tagged by Ken

Where is the person who has your heart at the moment? -- at Malaysia la bah..XD
"has" my heart?! then my heart not wif me ? >.<

Could you handle a long distance relationship? -- Why not?
i dun think so..

When’s the last time you said you were fine, but really weren’t? -- Seems long time ago @@
i owaz tel the truth XD

When is your birthday? -- 25th Oct
7th Feb

Relationships or one night stands? -- I'm not the one will choose one night stands.
one night stand not ngam me gua?! @.@

Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you back? -- Of course.
mayb?!

Has anyone ever told you they love you? -- Yeap
yeah

When was the last time you wanted to punch someone in their face? -- I think few months ago? @@
jusnow !! haha

When was the last time you were disappointed? -- I think yesterday..
i guess .. not long ago :D.. but i should have oredi 习惯 la zzz

Is there anyone who doesn’t like you? -- This world is big u know..?
mayb? haha

What happened at 9:00 AM today? -- At church ~ =]
office :D

What were you doing 1 hour ago? -- updating blog, well this's the 2nd articles i post today XD
trying to cari who did tag me lol

What was the last thing you said aloud? -- NO i don't want eat (LOL!! mum asking whether I want to eat peanut or not XD)
猪头HERMAN !!

What was the last thing you bought? -- My lunch at McDonald @@
my jacob for refilling storage in office ?! GG

What’s bothering you right now? -- I don't know,too much in one >_<
erm.. trying to cari back the ori Sanney?! lol

Can you sleep without blankets covering you? -- Sure~~
err if it is hot ^_^

Do you sleep a lot? -- Not really.
yeah .. i suka sleep haha

What’s the first thing you did when you woke up this morning? -- Off my phone alarm..
errr.. take my phone n check the time

What were you doing at ten last night? -- OMG i can't think @@
i was cutting sayur for preparation of today's dinner..

If someone liked you right now would you want them to tell you? -- Yea, just tell me I won't kill you
yeah i prefer terus terang ^_^

Do you enjoy late night phone conversations? -- Sometimes, LOL
erm .. dulu i guess YA.. nowadays reli lazy to talk phone >.<

Will you be sleeping alone tonight? -- Sure bah~
yeah

What do you currently hear? -- 石欣卉 - 你没想象中爱我　／　我知道
淘汰 - 容祖兒

Do you consider yourself lucky? -- Yeah thanks god , at least I'm not the unlucky one
err i guess so ?! haha ..at least i'm stil alive ^_^

Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush? -- I think ever but long time ago..
yeah.. as above, i suka terus terang :D

Last place you hugged someone? -- MOMO~~
place?! err.. @.@.. cant remember :D

Is there anybody you’re really disappointed in right now? -- No but there're somebody
haha yeah .. but it's ok .. ^_^

Do you have a reason to smile right now? -- Yea, I'm happy now =]
of coz ~ without a reason to smile then i rather go hit the wall .. haha

Who is the last person you got really pissed off at? -- Nobody, lol
err .. ken chin?! i guess haha ..

Do you want someone you can’t have? -- Why i want to have someone that i can't have? What for? << ya i agree with you KEN @@
no .. love shouldnt b like tat ^_^

Connection between you and the last person who text messaged you? -- Friend~
colleague + fren

Is someone on your mind right now? -- Yes.
yeah i guess? haha

Do you feel that your previous relationships were a waste of time? -- Nop~
waste?! no la .. btw, i dun have a PREVIOUS .. haha

people you tagged:Ken, CMZ, Ah bong, Sanney, Fanny, Leslie, Sindy, Birdy, VIVI, Sushi, Wei, Slyvia

From ♥ DaphnE Sunday, June 7, 2009 at 10:17 PM
1 sweeties

Monday, September 14, 2009

TAG -- I

从Daphne那里copy-paste来的...

Tagged by KEN
1. Besides your lips , where is the favourite spot to get kissed ? -- Face?
neck?! XD

2. How did you feel when you woke up this morning ? -- No feeling @@
wanna sleep back and MC wekeke ~

3. Who was the last person / people you took a photo with ? -- Today no take photo =3=
i guess ... ken? @.@.. or herman?! forgot XD (i only remember tat no nice pic today >.<)

4. Would you consider yourself spoiled? -- No.
no i guess ?! @.@

5. Will you ever donate blood? -- May be no,because it seems painful,lol
no .. bcoz my blood pressure too low XD

6. Have you ever had a best friend who was of the opposite sex ? -- Yea~
sure~ 99.99% of my frens = guys .. haha

7. Do you want someone to be dead ?No~
no..!! not even a small little living things .. unless the person done something bad like rogol?!

8. What does your last text message say ? -- From Fung, "Ok thanks Muakcs" @@
from Venessa Khor "where are you guys"

9. What are you thinking right now ? -- My brain very messy right now
how to make myself clear XD

10. Do you want someone to be with you right now? -- Yea but can't
i guess .. ya?! @.@

11. What was the time you went to bed last night ? -- 11.45pm if i'm not wrong?lol
11something

12. Where did you buy the tee you are wearing now ? -- I'm wearing singlet now,LOL!
sabah tshung tsin secondary school?! haha .. sport tshirt lai d

13. Is someone on your mind right now ? -- Yes.
yeah.. Daphne !! haha .. thinking how to answer these questions XD

14. Who was the last person who text you ? -- TPF~
Venessa Khor ^_^

*** i guess the following questions i cant answer liao lol .. coz i duno who to tag haha .. paiseh~ so i only paste from Daphne la XD

TEN Lucky Person to do this quiz.
1 CMZ
2 AhBong
3 Sanney
4 Leslie
5 Vivi
6 Fanny
7 Sindy
8 Birdy
9 VIVI
10 Sushi

15. Who is no.2 having a relationship with ? -- with her bf lar bah XD
16. Is no.3 a male or a female? -- Female.
17.If no.7 and no.1 get together , would it be a good? -- LOL this's what we say as Lessbian XD
18. What is no.1 studying about ? --Business study~
19. When was the last time you chatted with them ? -- Today
20.Is no.4 single ? -- I don't think so
21. Say something about no.2 -- Soh soh dei de XD (don't kill me)
22. What do you think about no.3 & no.6 being together --One more pair of Lessbian? XD
23. Describe no.9. -- Hmm we seldom hang out,I not really understand @@
24. What will you do if no.6 and no.7 -- fight ?Wow I think that will be a great show XD
25. Do you like 8 ? -- Ya, as a friend~

From ♥ DaphnE Wednesday, June 24, 2009 at 12:47 PM
1 sweeties

轻轻的..

老实说..我其实不想参与, 因为中间有太多的是非. 但我是一个不爱扫兴的人, 最不习于在大家闹哄哄兴致勃勃的时候来一句"我不去了~"

而且之后我再想一想 --- 我是怎么了?!

从前我不都不在乎这一切一切吗?! 看来..我又迷失了.

最后我还是去了, 带着愉快的心情. 虽然很热 >.<.. 哈哈..但过程总算开心快乐 ^_^ .. 其实我更想说的是, 这一着, 让我轻轻的.. 佩服起一个人来了!! 哈哈~

他在去之前摆着一副臭脸, 但瞬间可以张开笑脸然后表现出很享受的样子来..@.@ ..我傻眼了.

其实..我自己之前还不是一样? 我可以断言, 从前的我, 决不是一个喜怒形于色的人. 更可以连臭脸的桥段也省下.. 好像很神的样子哦?! 哈哈~

但近两年的我, 变得越来越没有耐性, 极其容易就会被惹恼. 是个性变了吗?! 不懂~ >.<

看来想找回自己, 虽说不是一件易事.但只要慢慢地..轻轻地..终会成功吧?! ^_^

错过 --- 已失去:得不到

好久没有写了.. 很陌生却又似曾相识的感觉.. 那些有TAG我的朋友们..不好意思哦..待会儿会慢慢补上给你们^^..

这一段时间我到底都在忙些什么?! 嘿嘿~

我在忙着把自己找回来...虽然离上一次的post不是很久..但我的心历旅程却好像已经画上了一段很长很长的荡震线..纵然我经历的不是很多, 但我悄悄地..也旁观了不少故事. 这样说来, 好像有点儿自私的心态 >.<.. 但当自己无力上前踏一脚的时候, 这或许是最好的选择也说不定.

其实我的心, 漫游了好久好久.

玩火 -- 知错 -- 受伤 -- 努力挽回 -- 绝望 -- 疗伤 -- 学习遗忘

我也不敢说..我已看透了. 因为一切, 仿佛才刚刚擦肩而过. 也许是我错过了很多.. 也许是我要面对已失去的事实.. 也许是我原来就得不到..

这种种.. 让我学会了.. 在不必要的时候.. 真的..

毋须太仁慈.

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