Saturday, March 15, 2008

自大狂

当一个人过于自信的时候, 在别人的眼里可能很自然地就会变成了不可一世的自大狂. 也许我就是这一种人.

其实有很多的道理大家都懂, 但不一定会接受而已. 然而, 我这一次真的做了大错特错的事情. 而且看情况, 似乎没有弥补的余地. 很多时候, 我会觉得有些事情做了就是做了, 没什么后悔不后悔的, 但这一次, 我却希望可以重来一次, 局面也许就不会那么姜了 >.<

回想一下, 我其实也不是错至极点的, 最起码我必需要内疚的理由不会太多. 当然, 我没有想过要赖帐, 是错了就是错了, 我也很乐意向对方道歉, 但问题是...他好像再也不想与我有任何交际了? 那我该怎么办? @.@

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

hahaha, listen to a story ... there is a driver, he saw 3 people at the bus stop, a dying old man ... a doctor who saved his life and his dream girl, both the girl and doctor needed transport urgently ...

He wanted to save the old man so much coz he is dying ... at the same time he want to helped the doctor who saved his life, and he really want to know his dream girl, coz maybe there is no opportunity to know her, or to return favour to the doctor ...

Who would u choose?? I have chosen to save the old man, coz obviously saving life is more importnat then anything, both the doctor and d dream gal will understnad ...

but the thing is!! the story continues, the driving gave d keys to the doctor, let him drive the old man to d hospital and use his car, while he stay back and accompany d gal to wait for bus

The moral of the story is ... people tend to focus on something too much he forgot to be even wiser, perhaps you're too stubborn on something u have, or something u dont have, that would make u arrogant ...

like an university graduate refuses to start a small business, coz he cant accept that he cant apply his knowledge and do something he can take pride in, so he lost the opportunity to get rich!!

people such jz let go, be what you are, stop being stubborn in something you have, or something u dont have ... you could be wiser ...

I dont know whether this applies to your situation, but I do hope it helps, good luck

汪洋中的瓶女 said...

谢谢你...真的, 人往往都会在任何时刻中, 有意无意地为自己加上一些盲点. 也许是真的因为大家的生存方式都不够细腻吧? 又或许是...让自己过于轻松却又没有写意的价值观, 也是在为自己制造盲点吧?! @.@

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汪洋中的瓶女 said...

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